4. They can’t stop being clingy and very needy. They need to be coddled and are very dependent. They can’t be independent, and they don’t want you to be independent. The couple that doesn’t grow on their own can’t grow together. If you’re always with that person, it’s pretty unhealthy.
5. The other person wants to change you. This is the worst type of controlling. They don’t know how to empathize with you, and just want to dominate you instead, molding you into the person they want you to be.
6. You influence each other in bad ways, or one person influences the other in bad ways. Whether it’s excessive partying, or hanging out with the wrong people; you should be uplifting each other’s energies, not bringing each other down.

